just my $.02...
I joined this forum 3 years and a month ago. I knew exactly one caver and I hadn't even talked to him in over a decade. I had a vague idea about the nature of cavers, but didn't know what to expect. I wanted to meet people and make friends, but since it was the great unknown to me, I didn't want to reveal myself completely and at once to a bunch of strangers. I knew I was friendly enough to make friends, but one can never be sure of the atmosphere of an internet discussion forum. (I am a champion of flamewars btw, but you wouldn't know it on this forum)
Incidentally, I felt a little stalked once from here because of something I said that someone didn't like. Even though I was a moderator at that time, I handled it on my own, and have had no problems since. To this day, however, I do not announce when and where I am going on cave trips here . Not everyone who visits cavechat is a member, and many probably have no interest in caving at all. But my posts can be read by
anyone with an internet connection, and information about my life could be used to harm me. Double edged sword is that I don't know who is really posting what. My anonymity, I felt, was my protection. Graveleye is a force to be reckoned with
I keed.
Anyway, it's pretty obvious when someone is using their anonymity to do wrong, or hide themselves from something they would not do publicly. I've seen it happen again and again in other forums, and here as well. But we really haven't had a problem with it here until the past couple of days when people chose to abuse their ability to cloak themselves. I've only recently put my real name in my profile because I feel like I have enough true friends to watch my back. I'm not up to no good, but I know that my friends and I are on the lookout for those that seek to deceive. I can name many, many members here that I consider trustworthy enough to meet somewhere and go caving, and I don't even know their real names. I've gone caving with folks who finally put it together and said "Oh YOU'RE GRAVELEYE!! heeeeyyyy" LOL Someone might call that naive, but I feel a sensible person can have a realistic grasp on sincerity and authenticity with who they are communicating with.
There are a lot of other points that could be argued, but I'm for keeping it as it is now. If you want the option of being anonymous, then you should be able to do that, so long as you are not maliciously deceiving the community. If someone is disguising themselves in order to do harm or cause mayhem, then obviously that should be discouraged.